Recently I received an wedding invitation from a friend from college. I'm excited to go, but I'm hesitating because in the past she and I slept together on several occasions before she met her fiance. I don't have any designs on her and I wish her and her husband-to-be all the luck in the world, but I'm not sure what the etiquette is in this situation. I'm also not sure if her fiance knows or not.
Sincerely,
Chicken Or Fish in California
Chicken Or Fish in California,
I can see how this may be an ordeal. But it actually all depends. Your past is in the past and if your just friends now then it shouldn't be awkward at all. If that's the case then treat it like any other wedding you'd go to. Give them your wishes and have a flocking good time! You might even pick up another girl there, I hear weddings are good for that!
But if there is still some sort of connection then it might be a little awkward. If she's still shooting you those winks when she sees you or texting those seductive messages and then invites you to her wedding, that's screaming for trouble. You were probably just so good sexually that she gets the tingles every time she sees or thinks of you. In that case, I'd suggest bringing a date to the wedding. If you're with someone, she won't be able to get one last thing in with you in the storage closet or anything scandalous like that. Keep her loyal to her future husband and plus, she shouldn't have the benefit of getting into your emotions. (Unless you're the hands free type and up for any good time.) And I'd suggest leaving the fiance out of it. It's not your job to let him know and if you did it might just open a can of worms. Let the chick work that out. If she's fantasizing about other guys besides her fiance, that might just turn into a disaster. But just go have a good time! Don't shoot any signs of interest and do hit on other girls hah. Hope that helps!
With Robot Love,
Shartron
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